Fatherhood - a lifetime chance to deep dive into myself to know #whoami
A deep conversation between me and my son on last year's Father’s Day…
Son: Baba, what will I do then?
Me: Lord Shiva will guide your brain and he will tell you to fondle it. It will come naturally to it. Don’t be afraid. It’s not anything wrong. Nobody will scold you.
Son: Baba, I am afraid. What will happen then?
Baba: After some time a jelly-like liquid will come out from your Kutu and then you will feel normal. When the liquid is about to come out of your Kutu, you will feel very satisfied physically and will be excited.
Son: Baba what is this liquid all about?
Me: That liquid, in the future, if used properly will help you to become a Dad. It’s very precious.
Son: So will I have to store it somewhere?
Me: No my dear. It will be produced regularly in your body and for the time being, you will have to wash it away. Then when you will grow up, if you and your wife use that liquid properly, you two will become parents
Me: Remember, your Kutu is one of the most valuable organs of your body. It is a very sacred part of your body. Have you seen Shiva Linga? That is the kutu of Lord Shiva. Why do we worship it? Because that’s the origin of ourselves. Without Shiva Linga, human beings would not have come to this universe. It’s the source of Origin. And that’s why it is said that we are all parts of Lord Shiva. Similar to the Shiva Linga, your Kutu is also very precious and sacred to you. You should never make it unconsecrated or dirty.
Son: Baba, how can it be dirty?
Me: If you use your Kutu with anyone else except your wife, your Kutu will become dirty. Not only your Kutu, but your whole life will also become unholy. So preserve your Kutu properly.
Son: Is this only true for boys?
Me: No son, every girl and boy has to become a woman and man respectively one day. And for boys, this is the process. Girls become women through a process called Chumming. Probably you will learn about this process someday from your Mamma. But always remember, whenever Lord Shiva guides you to fondle your Kutu, don’t be afraid, shocked, or ashamed. Remember, that day your process of Manhood will start.
After that, we discussed many aspects of life. But as I had a training schedule, I could not journal it at that time. Let me try to recollect it today.
The #humansoul hidden inside #fleshandbone
Me: Betu, when you become an adult, because of your physical need, sometimes you may feel like visiting a lady who will give this “holy service” - not for her own but for your well-being - both body and mind. Although there is no need for such physical affairs these days, you can calm down your body and mind, if you wish, by opening your laptop.
But in case, suppose, in the future, you need to visit such a holy lady to calm yourself down. Before starting the activity, at least take a few minutes of time to have a chat with her from your soul. Ask her, maybe like, why she really chose this profession - out of joy or out of poverty or out of need or anything that may arise in your mind at that moment. And let her open her soul, speak out her mind. You may learn some of the deepest lessons about human behavior and society from her if you analyze her answers while sitting alone in silence.
For example, you may hear from her that after the act, whatever money she will receive from you, she will dress up, clean herself up and then visit the nearest medical shop to purchase some of the essential medicines for her son or dad or mother or sometimes, maybe husband. After hearing such a story, you may not find the urge to do the act for which you went to her and rather will hand over the money maybe with a little more as a goodwill gesture and hug her and come back and, still, after that, if you have the mental energy, you will open your laptop and calm down your body and mind.
Such is the reality beta.
Life is not fair.
This will teach you one of the biggest lessons of your life.
Never judge anybody. And never keep a standard of what is good, bad, moral, immoral, and all such societal conditions that will be thrust upon you by the so-called leaders of our society.
Always have an uncluttered mind. Always listen to your #lordshiva. He will give you the best guidance.
Never care for anybody else in this world. Actually… Noone!!!!
You are your own #guru and #disciple and you will learn from the people around you and from the nature that #lordshiva has given - free of cost.
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