Beware of modern-day Philanthropist...

 The conundrum for the medicos to solve...

I will tell you a story about why in the future one should always be very careful of modern-day philanthropists. I explained to him probably many people work very hard in the background to calculate the ROI of a specific philanthropic act - like #imagebuilding, #goodwill, #personalbranding, and also most of the time, in places like #bharat, the #financialprofitabilty in the near future - especially when it is done by someone who claims himself as a #philanthropist and takes it as a #bragging right.

Let me explain the reality. These days its kind of a great act to do medical camps in remote villages of #bharat where most people live healthy lives. And there is actually tremendous brainpower, many marketing gurus who work to make these camps "successful" - not necessarily to create an #healthy village but rather to create a #sick village.

First, they will create #garamhawa about the need of leading a #healthy life with lots of music, soul-touching stories, many fables, and all such stuff. Simple-minded healthy villagers will start doubting if they are at all leading healthy lives. Then the medical camp will be organized where people will be given free #consultation.

What do these look like? A seemingly street-smart doctor, a glib talker with a shiny book medical book in one of his hands, stethoscope in the ear, in great attire, with lots of caricatures, aapna ga*nd hilate hilate ek healthy, strongly built villager ka ga*nd mein steho lagake bolega...you have problems - with tremendous conviction. Now that simple-looking village, who was never exposed to such great #angels, will ask..."So what can i do...sir/ma'am ?"

The sir/ma'am will give him the address of a specific #pathological center and will ask him to get lots of medical tests done - hags, moot, cough, aur mallom nahin bhai.

The next day, that healthy guy, while answering to nature's call, bara bara do dibba mein aapna hags, moot leke will catch a bus and with a frightened heart, feeling inferior in front of all such #englishspeaking #angels of the #pathological centre will hand over his dabba to them, clear the accounts with his hard-earned money, and girgirate hue puchega.. "sab kuch thik ho jayega na ma'am/sir"

machli jaal mein phaans geya.

treatment shuru ho giya.

The healthy guy will visit the doctor with the reports.

He will lose sleep.

And also he will advise others to lead a #healthy life like him

chakkar chaalu ho gaya puri gaon mein...

aab isme se jitna #roi mila, uhan se bhi kisko kitna milega, cut-money kidhar jayega everything is absolutely done in a $soft excel sheet - meticulous plan.

The Communication Skill issue:

lekin agar usdin medical campaign mein ekbar woh strong banda ka #innerconscience bol uthta ki... "ma'am aap keya yeh sab chota mota stehoe aur keya bolta hain yeah sab ke chakkar mein par gaye. mera pas ek bohut powerful injection hain. uska maja le lo aur zindiagi ji lo."

woh banda aur bhi bola.."ma'am aaplog hamare health ke bare mein itna sochte ho. I am feeling so bad. lekin aap bilkul tension chod do.. aisey ek-do saal pahle ek bohut famous international billionaire philanthropist socha tha ki ye sab unpod aadmiyo ko kayse educate karenge. Toh unhone #harvard se ek bidwan banda ko laya tha. hume to jyada se jyada kuch samajh mein nahin aaya, lekin ek baat aapna andar ghunsh gaya. uhone bola..."life is no fair"...

aur maine yeh sach much feel karta hoon ki #lordshiva is not fair in distributing #assets to everybody. ayse to male logo ko bahar se pata nahin chalta, lekin maine dekha what a bizarre distribution of #assets by #lordshiva to the female population. toh aap bilkul chinta mat koro. aagar aisey koy aapka jan paychanhain, jitna bhi, jin logo nei aapna #lordshiva ke upor gussa hain yeah sochke ki mujhe itna kam #asset kyun diya... to humlog puri koushish karenge usme #democracy lane ka... aur aisey camp aap puri saal rakho... aur iska naam applog #healthcamp mat do ma'am...ye bohut negative lagta hain... app uska naam do "asset multiplying camp - the great #freedommovement for #democracy in #asset distribution" aur hum aapko ye guarantee de raha hoon... ki humarar gaon mein jitna gaonar lamba-chowra jawan hain, uoh sab is great project mein kaam karega. may be without taking any charges.

ye great mahotsab ka agar koy #financial faida uthane chahte ho ... toh usko liye bhi ... jayse hum suna live show ayse hain... uoh sab koushis karenge...

aap sab log maja karte aapna assets ko barte hue dekhoge...

lekin for #development this is not an acceptable condition.

Only the poor #communicationskill of that villager can be blamed for this.

The curse of poor communication skill

And the end result - that healthy guy instead of working in the field, becomes busy in finding his physical problem.

It may create mental problems as well.

the solution is there for that as well.

he will take internet connection (#jio #airtel hain na), attending the motivational speeches of #spiritualguru on #youtube, aur aise sare cheese.

may be #erectile problem hoga. bibi degi  gaali.

uska lie bhi readymade #sexologists hain...

phir aise storyline jo hamare naughy girls karta hain na under the banner... unsatisfied wives.

phir uska bhi alag sa market hain...

woh alag story...

phir ye dekhke bujurg log TV mein debate karega ... "How to control your kaam"

upor #bapuji, #thefatheofnation bolega ,"aab samjha mamu.. why i seek #truth "

ek intellectual who is a specialist in #sexospiritulism, will take this idea and create a web series with the aim to show mainly two ways of seeking #truth through sex.

1. #bapuji way

2. #tantrik way

phir woh ek alag baat.. alag story.

The great use of Data Science

phir #social websites aapna #datascientist ko lagayega ki mera aapna abhi kya haal hain ki main aisa likh raha hoon...

kitni bar sex term use kiya. phir uska piche sentiment analysis aur interpretation... ki at the age of 50, a healthy (for me) guy, if uses the term sex in social websites, blogs, etc with their calculated assumption, does it necessarily mean he is now loving sex or hating sex.

phir #google will buy that #data and i will get advertisements in my browser according to that analysis and interpretation. 

aise mein aab (now it is controlled as improper, hence utterly controlled by many #esoteric logic-phylosophy-medicalscientist-moralscientist-religion... that itself can become another part of the story) agar kabhi kabhi ek do nanga ladki ka photo browser mein tapak gaya (which was more likely few years back) and my inquisitive mind kabhi click kiya to uska bhi bara interpretation nikalega... aur if i give my laptop to my young son, there are very intelligent people out there who came up with the idea of #childlock jisme mera son ko patay nahi chalega kuch.

The great education revolution

aur iss taraf #kyju ka advertisement matter hoga if you want your little kid to know and explain with all mathematical statistics and probability ki aaj se 10 saal baad agar koy 50 years old banda sex karna chahta hain ki nahi, aur agar chahta hain toh what kinds of girls he is interested in so that only photos and videos of that kinds of girls will be fed to his browser from his one month online activities, please enroll your son in #kyju.

the parents of #bharat will start dancing in joy and the kid will be enrolled in the #html class of #kyju to start his great journey in #computerscience. 

here in #bharat everyone will get the clear message - a great data scientist is born.

phir uoh bhi sayed ek market.

Conclusion

and that villager sochega ki yaar mera to banana tha aab ye chiil jaysa ho gaya...

aab keya karoon...

and he will start searching Main Kaun hoon

The great dilemma..

#whoami

that special spiritual journey is another part of the story. it has another market for other needy people...

bariya..right.

enjoy...

kaysa scheme.

management college sikhayega keya.

remember how it started because of the #philanthrophic act of that ga*nd-hilanewali doctor.

now that doctor is working as an #actress after leaving #medicalprofesson... kyunki usme jyada paysa hain...

she is writing this transformation of herself -from #doctor to #actress - as a victory story and searching for #filmproducer to make a #movie on it...

#lifelesson when in your youth, you are doing pretty well, and almost have become sure that you will attain your goal if you find that suddenly somebody appears in life and starts all such ga*nd hilanewala acts, be very very careful. It may harm you for a lifetime.

For male people: it just translates into ...

"Nari naraker dwar..." - girls are the pathway to hell.

not every emotion is worth paying attention to...

know your purpose...

My views on Prostitutes...

My Views - expressed by a song...

There are mainly two kinds of female prostitutes in this world - physical prostitutes and mental prostitutes.

Physical prostitutes are straightforward - they know as long as the water is flowing in them, they can utilize that to encash. And they do it openly. They don’t shy away to admit - that they use their water flow to earn money - maybe with some lofty purpose like raising their kids, or taking care of their old parents, or maybe because they were left with no other options in life to earn money owing to the fact that they only had physical assets at their disposal and also most of the times they were just victims of circumstances. They take care of their body because they know that they have to do it. Otherwise, they will starve. These people are easy to handle. And once a person attains some sort of wisdom and understands #whoami, he can easily overcome his physical needs and in that case, he can openly support these physical prostitutes with an open heart in whatever possible way he can out of #fellowfeeling and #humanity. One does not have to have #godly qualities to understand the plight of these hapless people. May #lordshiva protect all of such Physical Prostitutes with His grace and power.

The other kind of prostitute is a Mental prostitute. They utilize both their mental acumen and physical attributes to prey upon customers. And they come in many shapes and forms and can be found in various strata of society. These people are difficult to understand. Because they never admit openly their intention, they always love to play undercover, love camouflage, play nice with flamboyant words, and think that romance lies in using colorful words, the real #chamelion of society. These people are usually used by corporate sectors for extracting secret information, as political spies, and all such ghastly works. They obey their masters thinking that they are behaving like lionesses, whereas their masters actually think of them just as paid pariah dogs and openly admit that in front of everyone. These kinds of prostitutes think, without a proper reason, that they need lots of money to sustain their lifestyle and their hunger for money never ends. And they never try to understand with an uncluttered mind that money is not everything in life and they should lead a life with dignity and love. In #bharat, mostly these kinds of mental prostitutes are fluent in #english, have no morality, and come from the so-called high-middle class families. Once their physical water flow stops, they are left with only their mental acumen to prey upon customers. But because in the new age of the #internet, with the depleting emotions where nobody actually cares for the deep meaning of life, these mental prostitutes very soon become a burden of their own lives and start living a very sad lonely life.

They actually become mental patients and take pills to overcome their mental and physical fatigues because all through their lives they play around with others’ emotions and never experience True Love. These kinds of people can just be pitied and #karma takes care of their #destiny. You will find most of these mental prostitutes as actresses in  #bollywood, as #models in the #advertisement industry. Just one has to be very very careful of these #mentalprostitutes and treat them as poisonous snakes to protect his near and dear ones.

However, with the growing influence of the #filmindustry, these mental prostitutes have recently started getting new roles to play. They are intentionally placed as moles in a victim’s life by a master. As these mental prostitutes don’t have the moral dignity and depth in their lives, they accept all such jobs - maybe out of fear but most of the time to earn money although in reality they could have shown their true strengths and avoided all such ghastly jobs profile. If you study a few recent #Bollywood films from the last maybe 20 years or so, you will find how various psychological aspects of a person, traumatized states, and all such emotional matters are being shown in the characters of the actor or the actress. And from where the directors of the #filmindustry are getting such detailed inputs - you guess it right - from various such #mentalprostitutes placed just as moles in various real human’s lives and with the ghastly skills of the #prostitutes to play around with the emotions of her poor victim or #prey. Such is the emptiness of a #mentalprostitute.

The survival of the fittest - its neither the intelligence nor the strength - but resillience that creates a champ...

The Belgrade Offensive : 

Taken from wiki:

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On the streets of Belgrade

The 4th Guards Mechanized Corps of the Red Army broke through the enemy resistance south of Belgrade on 14 October and approached the city. The Yugoslavs advanced along the roads in the direction of Belgrade south of the Sava River, while the Red Army engaged in fighting on the northern bank outskirts.[citation needed] The assault on the city was delayed due to the diversion of forces for the elimination of thousands of German troops surrounded between Belgrade and Smederevo to the south-east. On 20 October, Belgrade had been completely overrun by joint Soviet and Yugoslav forces.

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After I grew up and gradually started looking at different storybooks to learn about real-life skills, one of the biggest lessons that i got when I was a student of class VI or maybe VII after I went through the depiction of the street fight in the Belgrade between RED army and Nazi's from Vivekananda Mukhopadhyay's famous book

"Ditiyo Biswajuddher Itihaas"

that 

It's neither the intelligence nor the strength that matters. What matters most is resilience.

Now, let me help to energize the memory of my contemporary people from other 

I have learned mental toughness from many sources - one of which was Martina Navratilova -Steffy Graph and Ivan Lendle - Borris Becker matches.

Now listen to my personal experience - the feeling in such a situation from a horse's mouth.

In my small town, I and my partner used to participate in senior badminton tournaments even when we were just sub-juniors.

Our doubles team reached the semi-final in the first attempt after defeating many senior people.

The audiences were so enthralled, that they wanted to know who is a better player - me or my partner?

So, a match was organized between me and my partner - Adhir.

I started winning in great fashion. Just two or three points away from the win. My partner was far behind. I thought I had already won. Now he cannot beat me anyway.

And that was the time which I never expected. My partner suddenly seemed to become unbeatable. None of my tricks was working. Frustration built up. 

And I was feeling like Oh my God... what has happened to me…

The score became almost equal. The fight seemed to be unbearable. It was just the nerve that was working. Nothing else.

The match had to be stopped because it was pretty late in the winter night. and we had to walk a long distance to reach home.

But the lesson was learned.

Never start your mental champagne party before the final point is won.

Another such test of your patience will be when you fly kites.

There are two ways by which you can do a kite fight

- one is by maneuvering your kite and pulling your string very fast. This is a technique used by the real fighters - the aggressive ones who just want to kill the enemy with the first attempt. No wastage of time. Just move forward and kill.

- the other way - usually taken by the less skilled players - a passive way of Surki khela - just loosening the threads freely and letting God decide who wins.

I started as a second category but then learned the skill and moved to the first category of fighter after some years of practice and learning. It was not an easy task.

Most of the time the first category people always used to win. Because they never gave any time to the victim to think, maneuver or even hide. They just approached fast and killed.

Now even amongst them, there were different characteristics. There were two expert first-category fighters in our locality - one was Khokanda and the other was Ajit, my badminton partner's elder brother.

Khokanda had just sheer power. He never used to fly kites for a long time... Just maybe for 1 hour in the afternoon. His kite used to fly at a very high altitude, almost beyond anybody's imagination.

But when he used to come down, it was just like a hawk, fast, no time for the victim to even hide and before you think what is going on... you are gone - out. No way of protecting yourself... You have to surrender. Absolute powerplay.

Ajit was somewhat not that cruel. But he had the maneuver skill. And, I learned by observing him that the precision in the time when you start pulling the thread fast will decide the result. And it depends on a lot of things. If less air, more sagging. If more air, less sagging. 

I remember, one day Ajit told me why it is not a good idea to use heavy threads for kite flight because it creates more problems to do precise calculations because of more sagging. 

So the mental calculation of exactly when the force where the thread of your kite touches the enemy's thread, the calculation, and the necessary maneuver...

I swear it's a great skill to build attitude...

And when Ajit and Khokanda had a duel, people used to flock around Ajit (as Khokanda used to fly kites from the rooftop) to enjoy the duel between skill and power... 

Oh my God... what a great show…

And now, in the case of the second category of kite-flyers, sometimes, it takes a very long time to get the result. The kites almost go beyond vision. And then the game of patience starts. Eventually, one participant cannot bear it anymore and most of the time he loses because he stops the surki thinking that ... 

enough...

no more... 

Let me stop it...

Life is a long-haul game... No shortcut to winning..

Patience matters...

 Read....  Read....

Dwitiyo Biswajuddher Itihaas - I

Dwitiyo Biswajuddher Itihaas - II